Nonetheless, if you’re looking for a fun couple of months, look no further. He realizes that the easiest way to access older women is online.He is typically at the age of sexual discovery and imagines that older women are not only more experienced and enticing, but more available as well.Sometimes he will admit to the women he finds online that he is using Internet dating as a diversion, and sometimes he won’t.However, with patience and fortitude there may be the possibility that a substantive relationship can develop.When he needs connection or the fantasy of a relationship, he can effectively “order out” for a date.By avoiding actual human contact he isn’t forced to push his boundaries or risk challenging the perfection of his fantasy women with the experience of a real life woman.Either way, these scenarios may take a long time to play out. Already Taken He wants to know what else is out there, but won’t necessarily act on it. Either way, he is not planning to leave his current relationship, but feels like he is missing out on something.Or perhaps something pivotal is missing in his relationship, and he wants to be reminded or reassured there is life beyond his current confines.
Interestingly, fantasy can be so powerful for him that when reality fails to compete, he finds ways to fade away.The longer he continues the lie, the worse the discovery is.Relationships that start by duping a partner don't end well. Sooo Busy This is the former Ivy League rower, now a neurosurgeon who has chosen the Internet to meet women who are likely on their own tight timelines.However, it may be possible for him to shift from fantasy to reality now or over time as he realizes he has to make some concessions if he wants to have a real partner. Lies About Age He is typically older, in his 50s, 60s, or even 70s, and is set on meeting and dating women significantly younger than he is, so he shaves years off his life in his profile, even in his "current" online pictures.He may be very well meaning, and may truly believe that once he meets these young women they will be so drawn to him that the deception won’t matter, and the age difference will be rendered irrelevant.