And, you guessed it—the switch plays a key role in this!
And you interpret others’ messages in the same way.For some people, no matter what takes place in the conversation, they are interpreting it in a nice-and-friendly sort of way. These sorts of people are switched off, and they miss opportunities all of the time. This means they are always thinking about the conversation in terms of attraction – whether sexual or romantic.They probably wouldn’t think flirting is happening even if the person came right out and said, “I want to date you.” Other people are constantly seeking out and looking for clues of attraction. Their trouble isn’t spotting flirting when it is happening.And if their crush is switched off, this flirtation will go nowhere.When you are switched on, you are strongly communicating and highly receptive to messages of attraction, particularly physical attraction.