I have never had different persona for my online life. I also think there's a real need to appreciate that the online and offline worlds are not entirely two different beasts," she says.Naughty Jo is a 28-year-old mother of two — "I work a full-time job, so my only other hobby is my kids" — and as she puts it, "I do use other sites and some of the guys on there know me from [My Girl Fund].She's a 25-year-old single mother who enjoys "all the girly things you can think of," like horseback riding, swimming, and spoiling herself clothes shopping."Not only do guys join for fun," she says, "there are many reasons why they may choose to join.Some are in need of a confidence boost to meet women in the real world, and, personally, I'd ask who is better to give them advice of what to do or be like towards a woman in person?"People don't just want to talk about sex all the time, and if they do, it's nicer to talk about it to someone you feel you connect with, and that's one reason why the social side of My Girl Fund is vital, and a very good idea.Personally, I've never been in a situation where someone's come on too heavy or serious.
You're presented with an array of women who are mostly scantily clad, and upon clicking on their profiles most of the descriptions tend to emphasise the various sexual photos and videos you can pay the women in order to see: stripping, using a dildo, performing oral sex on someone.I get the impression the majority of guys here know what's appropriate."She tells me she's met someone on the site "who I'm sure will be a friend for what I hope will be a very long time." Likewise, Princess Kiss, who's 23, from the North, and enjoys "What most young women do, spending time with friends and family, shopping, clubbing, reading true crime and watching horror movies," tells me: "I have made a good few friends on here, they can tell me anything and I can tell them anything." She adds that's she is totally herself on the site – in part because she can be more open with her sexuality, which she couldn't be on other sites where her family and friends are watching. She lives in the North and is currently studying for her bachelor's degree in art history.She has a long-term boyfriend who is "extremely important" to her, and lists her main interests as film and travel."I've had guys pay me solely to talk with them before, without asking for videos or photos, etc.," she says."For instance, many guys are happy to have the friendship they have with me on here.They're already happily married, so meeting someone in person could get them into trouble, whereas online, it can't get complicated; they're not meeting anyone and feeling as if they're cheating on their loved one, because they're not."English Rose23 is one of the first women I speak to on the site, and my initial instinct is somewhat sceptical.