So, how do the Susans of the world avoid injury from such a relationship?
It may be morally or ethically wrong; it just depends who you ask. It's simply about understanding our natural tendencies and their origins.
And most single men confess they are initially very careful not to appear too interested, lest they find themselves headed for a commitment they're not ready for.
If he doesn’t show her how he feels with his eyes, his voice, the brush of his hand against her back, her shoulder, how will she know he wants her?
Whether she discovers these facts or not, her heart is destined to be broken. However, some data point to the possibility that a broken heart after ending it with a married person can be much more difficult to heal than a broken heart after a more traditional relationship. Cheaters who end relationships tend not to be the most sensitive partners.3.
They may feel that the reasons for ending it should be obvious to their affair partner, and that she or he should just take it like a "big girl."“You knew what you were getting into,” is a not uncommon reason to stop calling, stop emailing, stop texting, and if it is a workplace relationship, stop being nice at work.4. Whether through shame, a desire to protect the cheater, or both, it is often true that no one knows of the relationship.