He hears: I won't have sex with you until we're married. "You could mean you like having the car door opened for you," says Wygant, but men read into this terminology that you don't believe in sex before marriage.
Even if you don't, both Wygant and Katz say not to mention it in your profile.
"Good guys may think you sound angry and bitter," says Katz. If your world revolves around your children, where would a guy fit in?
That means he might worry he'll invest time messaging you only to find you won't meet in person.
He's on there too, and likely so are some of your friends and colleagues, so there's no need to be embarrassed.
Give examples of trips you've taken or weekend activities you enjoy.
These show him you have free time and that you use it to have fun.