It takes a lot of courage to let his woman know he may want sex, but more important is his need for security, love, and nurture.It requires a level of wisdom to know that allowing ourselves to be as vulnerable as a child may be the manliest thing a man can do.I’ve been meeting regularly with six other guys for thirty-eight years and sex has been a topic that has run through our discussions over the years.Like all guys we are somewhat competitive and we all want to be seen as successful, but we also have learned to be honest with each other.In high school I remember overhearing a girl I liked talking about a guy we both knew.
Sure, in modern times these roles are less rigid than they once were, but for the most part, whether we’re peacocks or people, we strut our stuff and hope it’s good enough to get us chosen by the woman we go after.
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We not only talk about our sexual successes, but also our failures, fears, and confusions.
From the time I was a young I learned that wanting sex was synonymous with being a man.