You’ll hear that expressed in terms like “You’re so articulate” or “Can you believe that this ‘little lady’ can do (insert normal business function here).” Ignorance and confusion are hardly conducive to a good relationship.
The good news is that there are a growing number of white men who know, trust and rely on their black women colleagues.
When it comes to women and dating, I say you can never know enough.
And women, lest you think you're off the hook, you're not.
And when you've accrued a decent amount of courtship hours, then you can bang away.
TOO FURIOUS Ok, so you're livid at your ex, or fuming about the divorce, or bitter you're still on after all these years. We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you.
By the way: If you are unsure of what a “hoochie mama” is, I recommend Luke Visconti’s Ask the White Guy column is a top draw on Diversity
dt ogilvie, co-authored a phenomenal paper about African American Women Executives (AAWE).
Don't let your anger turn into emotional baggage you carry around everywhere you go.
GF #1: "The biggest turn-off for me is when a divorced man compares you to their ex-wife.
Her paper documents how AAWE leadership traits are very different from white women’s.
They’re actually similar to white male leadership traits.