You perceiving me as wronging/hurting/abusing/whatever you, is setting off my responsibility alarm bells which is setting off my reality alarm bells which is setting off my commitment, expectation, and intimacy alarm bells.
The sooner I’m excused, the sooner I can get back to doing what I always do.” Or “Look, can you hurry the eff up and get off my back because I’m only offering up this feeble justification for what I’ve said/done or failed to say/do because the real reason doesn’t sound too great when said out loud and may invite conflict, plus if I gave you the real reason, it would put me in the position of actually having to Sometimes, they’re even saying “Look, you know and I know what’s happened here but if you want to go along with this charade, I’ll throw you an excuse and see how much more of a free ride I can get.” , they’re saying, “Wow, it seems like you don’t seem to see what’s really going on here! / Can’t you see that I clearly am not putting in the time and effort here?
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'With full knowledge that he was communicating with a real 15-year-old girl, the defendant asked her to engage in sexually explicit conduct via Skype and Snapchat, where her body was on display, and where she was asked to sexually perform for him.
'That offense – transmitting obscenity to a minor to induce her to engage in sexually explicit conduct by video chat and photo – is far from mere 'sexting'.
Weiner tried to resurrect his career by running for mayor in 2013 and surged to the lead in the polls.
But once again, more racy online messages, where he used the cheesy moniker 'Carlos Danger,' surfaced to doom his candidacy and open the door for the then-little-known Democrat who would go on to win, Bill de Blasio.