As she became more comfortable with being a sugar baby, she opened up to more of her friends, allowing around 10 people in on her secret.
And not everyone is as supportive of her decision.“You can sit here and bash it 24/7 and say, ‘You’re a sinner,’ ‘You’re a slut,’ but it really doesn’t bother me,” she said. I just pray and say thank you for even letting me get through this year. I never had my life breakdown as much.”She admits that she may come across some regret later in her life.
“I’m scared to have any big moments with these guys because then it will all end up being nothing.”A secret some may never know about If her parents found out about her sugar life, she is almost sure they would disown her.
So she’s kept it quiet from them along with a number of people that are close to her.“I act normal,” she said. I’ve got that life.”From a very young age, she learned how to lie to her parents.
Right now, I could get a gift just for coming and getting coffee. But even with an extra 0 from time to time from her clients, she still works two other jobs.“People think they give you thousands of dollars,” she said. Some do, but those are the high-class New York, California, out-of-the-country kind of people.”And depending on what she is willing to do and who she will accept as clients, a sugar baby can estimate how much a sugar daddy is willing to spend.“It’s not like how it is in the movies, where you find a sugar daddy, and he buys you a car and pays for your school and all of this stuff,” she said. There are girls with really rich sugar daddies who want Louis Vuitton girls, girls who can come live with them in California or New York. I can’t leave.”The most she has ever received at a given time is 0.“At most, maybe we’ll have to do something — get coffee — and I may get a couple of hundreds thrown my way,” she said.
Her degree from UGA is what matters the most.“To me it’s like I’m going to pay the loans,” she said. My parents put nothing into my school.”She only told one of her best friends in the beginning.
As for Seeking Arrangement, the company requires background checks on its more than 3 million members. ’ They’ll say, ‘Yeah,’ and they’ll usually show some sort of bill.”But knowing who she is in a relationship with is also important for her.“I research these people, you know, like pictures,” she said. “One guy asked, ‘How do you feel about being urinated on? Out of the 12 total clients she has engaged with, she’s actively talking to three.
It checks for crimes related to violence, sex, domestic violence and individuals registered as sex offenders. In addition to Seeking Arrangement’s efforts, sugar babies are encouraged to do their own research.“We discuss income,” she said. This way, if she isn’t satisfied, she always has a backup plan.“If I don’t like them, I’m not going to sugarcoat it,” she said.
It came to almost ,000.“That’s when I started thinking, I could just stop all of this stuff — school, drama, all of this — I could just go off with him and everything would be fine,” she said. Some are shorter than others, but she has to remind herself that she isn’t doing this for fun. When it’s time to end a relationship, some of her clients aren’t in the most stable places in their lives. He is in his 50s with a son close to her age.“He is just like the guy from ‘Up’,” she said.
She is doing this to pay for school.“They’re not as long as I’d like them to be,” she said. Although she tries to keep an emotional connection to a minimum, there are some clients who want to the relationship to become more serious. “He genuinely likes me, and that sometimes scares me.”But she can’t do this for the rest of her life.