But I have met a really great girl who is fun to be around and very pretty and I have been going out with her for several months.
Make her laugh with smart, observational comments instead of put-down jokes.
After a lot of dates with a lot ofwomen, I noticed two things: #1: It takes a special set of skills and insights to pass a woman’s tests and graduate from first-dater to “boyfriend material,” the kind of man she wants to share fulfilling, long-term intimacy with.
#2: The longer I continued to fail these tests, the more I started to feel like something wonderful was missing from my life — also known as having a great GIRLFRIEND.
Now, after several months, it has died down a great deal.
At first whenever I would try to be intimate I usually was successful.