It boils down to being truly honest with yourself (ask yourself: “am I really comfortable with doing this/that? To work for the attention makes you feel he is not too needy or smothering.
Someone with an opinion is someone that has the self-confidences that in turn makes you more attractive. there’s something exciting about a man or woman who is assertive enough to tell you what he wants.So my best advise if she/he treats you badly don’t lower yourself to their level. I’ve run the gamut – been a ‘b_ _ _ _’ and have been a ‘doormat’ and am now beginning to reach some conclusions.Basically, I believe its all about balance – this is true for both men and women.Which why the wedding vows talk of Respect, Honesty, Loyalty and Love which is the basics anyone wants and needs in a good relationship.I believe most healthy women and men act the way they want to be treated. You will find the woman / man for you that will rock your world.